Christmas/2026 reading list: “Ask Why But Not Why Me” by Kristy Mandigo
- Kristy Mandigo Kinkor

- Dec 21, 2025
- 2 min read
“Ask Why But Not Why Me” by Kristy Mandigo is a deeply inspiring memoir that deserves a spot on your Christmas/2026 reading list — and here’s why.
Kristy Mandigo’s story is a powerful testament to resilience, determination, and reframing how we approach life’s challenges. Despite facing a learning disability early in life, Kristy carved out a remarkable path in engineering and leadership — eventually rising to prominent technical and strategic roles at work.
In Ask Why But Not Why Me, she invites readers into her personal journey — from a childhood filled with doubts and setbacks to a career marked by achievement and influence. Rather than wallowing in self-pity or asking “Why me?”, Kristy learned to ask meaningful questions that drove her forward. She emphasizes that **it’s okay to ask “Why?” — but not in a way that traps you in defeat. Instead, her philosophy pushes you to figure out how you’ll move forward and what purpose might be found in your struggle.
The book combines vulnerability with hard-earned wisdom. You’ll encounter stories of being told “no” or “you can’t do it,” only to see Kristy turn those rejections into motivation and fuel for growth. Her experiences show that disability doesn’t define potential — and that strength often grows out of challenge, not comfort.
Why it belongs on your Christmas/2026 reading list:
📚 Uplifting and motivational: It reminds us that setbacks don’t have to be endpoints — they can become the foundation for impact and empowerment.
💪 Empowering for everyone: Whether you face visible struggles or quiet obstacles, Kristy’s perspective helps shift focus from limitation to possibility.
✨ Perfect for reflection at year’s end: The holidays and start of a new year are ideal times to revisit your own goals, resilience, and purpose — and this book helps you do just that.
If you’re looking for a book that inspires courage, challenges assumptions, and fills you with hope and clarity as you head into 2026, Ask Why But Not Why Me should be near the top of your list.






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